The Melquiades Project

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Do you think it’s a question of how much you balance that drive to achieve with being present and enjoying the moment?

You know, it’s funny because I frequently get emails from young people starting out and asking, “How do I make a successful website or start my own thing?” And, very often, it’s tied to some measure of success that’s audience-based or reach-based. “How do you build up to seven million readers a month or two million Facebook fans?” But the work is not how to get that size of an audience or those numbers. That’s just the byproduct of what Lewis Hyde calls “creative labor,” which is really our inner drive. The real work is how not to hang your self-worth, your sense of success and merits, the fullness of your heart, and the stability of your soul on those numbers—on that constant positive reinforcement and external validation. That’s the only real work, and the irony is that the more “successful” you get, by either by your own standards or external standards, the harder it is to decouple all of those inner values from your work. I think we often confuse the doing for the being.

Over on 99U, I shared some thoughts on how to live with presence in the age of productivity.

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I wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting the idea that courage is a man with a gun in his hand. It’s when you know you’re licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what.
Atticus Finch, To Kill a Mockingbird (Harper Lee)

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POETRY TIME! :D :D

mydrunkkitchen:

"Go to the Limits of Your Longing"
by Rainer Marie Rilke

God speaks to each of us as he makes us,
then walks with us silently out of the night.

These are the words we dimly hear:

You, sent out beyond your recall,
go to the limits of your longing.
Embody me.

Flare up like a flame
and make…

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On classist bullshit...

descantforhope:

I have many things to say. Let me just start off with disclosing that throughout high school, my peer-given nickname was “trailerpark”, mostly because that’s where the bus let me off to go to our mobile home.

My entire family for many generations are generally blue collar…

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My friend, old and passing, said,
“There is more to life than staying alive.
Don’t rescue me too much.”
On his farm, twelve miles out
by rough gravel roads, he is done
with plowing, spraying, harvesting.
But he is not done watching the sun
sink below the windbreak or listening
to the nighthawks above his fields.
Don’t make him move to town.
There is more to tragedy
than dying.

A Note to His Doctor by Kevin Hadduck.

Poetry and Medicine, JAMA July 2, 2014, Vol 312, No. 1

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Effective, powerful writing, like effective doctoring, demands a rare ability to avoid becoming discouraged while experiencing frustration—and the willingness, energy, and fortitude to keep trying.
Becoming a Doctor by Lee Gutkind (via thenotquitedoctor)

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